BE RESPONSIBLE !

As a mom, as a parent, and as a wife, we have big huge humongous responsibilities toward every person in our families.
We need to understand that love, respect and reward don't happen just like that, they are to fight for, you have to deserve your title.
The only way to succeed in your life as a wife and as a mom is to dedicate your self entirely to your family, not only to your kids but to your husband too. If you and your husband are a team, your kids will have a chance to be normal and grow up healthy (psychologically).
The most important and the hardest responsibility, is to be a role model for your kids. Try as much as you can to change any bad habits that you have, any behavioral problems that you have, an do it while your kids are still to young to copy them.
Your kids are imitating you, they are learning from you, they want to be like you and like their father, be careful at what you say and what you do because they will do it too.
We are so busy taking care of things, we think we are doing the best we can, but are we really? 
Time goes by fast , our kids are getting bigger and bigger every day, one day it will be too late for us to change and impossible for us to change them.
So do your job right, that way you will have nothing to fix later, and don't forget you will get the reward for your dedication and hard work now and later.
Until next time, be your best for you and for your family.
Live and love your life. 

DO YOU FEEL DOWN SOMETIME?

Stress is probably the number one source of depression.
When you are stressed, your body produces stress hormones, that are designed to make you overcome your challenge, but at the same time make you feel like you can't do it.
That is why you feel like you want to cry.
We all have our tough moments, like when everything falls a part at the same time, we think nothing will be the same anymore and that we can't work it out this time, and like magic suddenly we all forget about it , like it never happened.
Don't you feel silly , when it happens to you and you cry , scream, go lock your self in your room , and think "WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME?", "HOW AM I EVER GOING TO GET OVER THIS ONE?"
We have all been there, done that, and still thank GOD we find a way to be calm and happy again.
Next time you get overwhelmed with things, take a break don't try to fix anything, get your head straight and then face it. You will have more strength and clear head.
And here is a very good tip, LISTEN TO YOUR HUSBAND, when you can't thing right he still can, ask for his help, his your partner, your friend, and the father of your children ,it concerns him as much as it concerns you, let him in with you, fix things together, and at the end you will solve the problem and you will have a stronger relationship with him, don't blame him ask for his help.
Remember what ever happens, you will forget about it sooner then you think, so do the right thing.
Until next time , no matter how difficult your life is , love it .

A MOM'S SACRIFICE

Do you love your kids?
Of course you do, we all do, but do you love your kids enough to make a sacrifice for them?
The hardest part of being a mom , is having to give up things that we love for the ones that we love.
If you are strong enough , and if your priority is your family , giving up things will be easy. But if you need those things to be happy, your family will pay the price.
Let's get this straight, you are either a mom or a successful woman. You can't and you will never be both.
The challenge is to know what do you want the most, to be a mom or to be successful.
Depending on your choice, you will sacrifice either your family to be successful, or your success to be a mom.
What do you thing you would rather be, once you are sixty years old?
A mom and probably a grandma, with a strong loving family. Or, a retired woman.
No matter how successful you are, that success will vanish with time. But no matter how old your kids will be, they won't give up on you because you didn't give up on them.
"WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND".
Think about it, if you work to support your family, that work should not come between you and your family, you priority is your family. But if you work to have a career, or to establish a status in society, you don't care about your family , your priority is you.
Take a moment and think about this , don't fool yourself because you are not fooling your family. They know what matters to you the most and if it is not them, you will only be a mom by name, and that will be your loss, trust me on that.
Until next time, be a real mom, there is nothing better in life. 

HOW ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND?

Being a mom sure takes most of our time and energy, we forget that we have other responsibilities than taking care of our children.
How about the father of your children?
How about the man that actually gave you those children?
When is the last time you took care of him?
Since when he stopped being your priority?
Do you think he is happy?
You know our kids are depending on us in everything, but they grow up so fast we should let them be independent slowly and slowly until they are ready to take care of themselves. Meanwhile, what do you think will happen to you marriage ?, to your relationship with the only person that will be with you, after your kids will be gone creating their own families ?
Think about it, your real priority should be your husband, because your future depend on your relationship with him.
Are you ready to sacrifice what made you a mom in the first place to be a mom?
Don't forget that your kids need to grow up in a healthy family to be normal, they need a balance in their life to be balanced. Providing a loving solid family is part of your responsibility towards them. You know kids get hurt when their parents fight, they are unhappy when you are unhappy, they don't know how to express it, but they suffer when they see you act like strangers.
Remember your childhood, how were things? What made you happy ? and what made you suffer ?
If you love your kids , don't make the same mistakes your parents did.
Think about it, your happiness, your marriage and your kids depend on it .
See you soon, until then take care of your husband, trust me you will be glad you did.

DO YOU HAVE MORE THAN ONE CHILD?

If yes, here are some facts:
Loving your kids and caring about them, is sometimes challenging, especially when they fight or disagree about something, you find yourself protecting the younger one and punishing the older one, you thing that the older one should be more understanding just because he is older, forgetting that he is still a child and that concept is not yet obvious in his mind. What happen next is the real problem, the younger one start teasing his older brother or sister because he thinks you will defend him and it is OK if he does the wrong thing, and the older one will start punishing his younger brother or sister just because he or she is the reason for him being punished , and you will find yourself spoiling the younger one and pushing the older away.
I am pretty sure, if you have children you know what i am talking about, but the problem is, do you realize that you are the one creating this situation and making it become worse and worse with time?
Here is what you should do: start by watching your kids closely , the way they act with each other, are they most of the time loving and caring for each other? are they fighting then hugging without you having to interfere? or do they look like there is a bad thing going on? You know , no matter how old they are you can still notice the difference between a loving relationship and a tough one.
If they are in a tough relationship hurting each other with you in the middle , here is your way out: start by ignoring your younger child's complains , if they are in a fight punish the younger one instead of the older one , you will send a message to him that says," i am not protecting you anymore so you better respect your older brother or sister", at the same time the older one by seeing you punish his younger brother or sister , he won't have to do it himself ,and "et voila" you would stop this vicious cycle that you created and they will became best friends .
If there is one thing that you should know, kids are very smart no matter how old they are they just need common sense, trust them, they can do the right thing if you do it to .
That's it for today, until next time love your life it will love you back.